Users/energy hoarders/in-the-moment attention whores…
You slave over them. You make them feel more than welcome in your home. IN YOUR LIFE. You give them so much of your time and day. You give all of yourself, plus some, plus the kitchen sink and the donutellas that come with it, to them. You think they too, give you the respect and love that you specifically give to them, the very select few of your crew.
And then the love and attention you whole-heartedly thought was yours, they also give to the person that they bad-mouth on a regular basis.
Screw this shit.
Only look after number 1: that is, YOU.